Its Just Life..Take It Easy.

Until and unless it’s a life sentence,its a life lesson.:) Confirmed daily when we wake up each morning,new sunrise is a gift to start anew.

Whatever good happens with us is a good memory,whatever bad we face is a lesson learnt.Good time doesn’t last forever,so does the bad even.What can make the bad times permanent and painful in our memories is the deliberate attempt of remembering,revising,evaluating it.When we do that,its at a heavy expense,our future,our destiny.Because each moment of our present we lose to cry over what has already gone is a moment snatched from our life.It doesn’t mean we must not be learning from mistakes,but then…Learn n not just repent or feel miserable.Do not spend a lifetime to think to ask for forgiveness.

Why do we start taking life so seriously as if we are here for forever??Why do we wait for that forever to come to be happy ?

Forever doesn’t even exist.!

Must have often heard from elders how they repent of giving too much of themselves and their lives for something,some relation or some goal.Its great to try for the best we can..resolving issues with friends and family,achieving something..but first and foremost is your relation with yourself.For the betterment of everyone around,we should be friends with ourselves.Sun will rise and set without you for everyone..even when you think you are indispensable.

Walking in a garden with much luggage on your shoulders will not let you enjoy.So does happen in the journey called life.Declutter yourself.Throw away extra lugguage of pains,miseries you have been carrying all your life.Its doing no good than not letting you be free to enjoy what is coming around next.Stop telling yourself the old stories..We all know that’s what is actually stopping us get closer to what we want to be and how we want to be..A Happy You.

Nothing I am writing is what you must be reading for the first time..and I have too read it many a times everywhere around..but we constantly need to remind ourselves and our loved ones that life is meant to be lived and not some punishment to go through.

The first step towards living a life we actually dream of is,starting celebrating the life we already have.

One very good advantage of having old people as your friends is they have the best things to say about life.They mostly have a common feeling that people rush too much in life to know in the end that they could enjoy more had they lived each moment rather than waiting for one always…!

When in primary school,we are told to study hard as it’s a preparation for secondary.Then secondary becomes a preparation for high school,high school remains a preparation for a college,college is merely a preparation for the giant business world,there we realise the race has just begun,the next promotion becomes the preparation to reach higher posts.When we reach middle age,we think now seems we have reached.Then we realise we have to save for our old age,then working till our bodies can allow becomes a preparation to dream of a happy retired life.Then finally we have our savings with artificial teeth,wrinkles and shaky legs.So the savings were a preparation to spend on the lifestyle diseases like stress and so many more.

Sounds too fast and scary..:D Wait let me scare you more,we may not necessarily reach that retired stage even.There are life insurances but no life guarantee.Think now,we are taking something so uncertain and unpredictable,so seriously.

Dont let it be that fast and scary for yourself and your loved ones.Help ease each other at home and around,reminding them to enjoy life each day and not just wait for another weekend,situation,year or anything.Nothing is that valuable to keep you waiting to be happy.

Nobody is to be blamed for your dysfunction.Its not what happens to us,it’s about how we come out of it and learn in the process.So better we start taking charge of our life by resolving in this new year that we choose to be happy with ourselves..HAPPY WITH OURSELVES.Its a choice really..!